My Girlfriend, Thinks That She’s My Girlfriend
Women tend to look at everything as investing. They invest time studying to receive a better grade, invest hours in tanning beds to make sure they have an olive complexion at all times, and invest blood, sweat, and tears in your relationship – because they think that you’re the one.
How often do we find ourselves in a relationship, without even knowing it was a relationship? How often does that close bond that you originally made result in verbal talks and/or arguments? How often do the things that you’re not technically “allowed” to do because your not tied into a relationship, begin to happen anyway?
Hook-ups are always funny on a basis of how often the two candidates see each other. Are you calling her too often? Is she calling you too often? Where’s the line in the sand that’s supposed to be drawn? It’s important to be upfront at all times and make sure that if your not going to let things go anywhere, make that clear… didn’t I tell you that women are investing in you, not your dick?
I’ve watched so many people perform their rendition of R.Kelly’s Trapped In The Closet, stuck in things that they never expected to result in a relationship. There’s an easy way to tell if someone’s in a relationship or not without knowing it. If you’re out with another girl, and you see your, “I’m way too close to your life” hook-up, are you going to have to have a talk that moment about what’s going on in this situation?
Well maintained eye-to-eye (not literally) hook-ups are the ones that come over and are gone early in the morning, or early enough because they are busy maintaining their own lives – which is clearly more important than laying in bed with you all day.
With the wintertime here and more and more hand-holding occuring… how many of these “couples” are actually establishing rules, and acknowledging that things will most likely be over once summer comes. You know, the “couples” that once the sun melt’s the rest of the snow will be at the beach trying to see what someone else’s sweat tastes like as they down multiple 16 Oz cans of imported 4 Loko’s. I know it’s well into cuffing season but don’t get yourself trapped into something you’re not ready for. You know damn well where you’re leaning towards.
